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Get the intimacy you want. Feel sexually alive. Communicate your real desires.

Unapologetic in Bed

A playful & nerdy sex school 🍑💦🚌

…… that helps you release shame around sex & fully step into your desires in sex. 💥

This is a self-paced course, so you can consume this from the comfort of your own home! With 5 x 20 min digestible chapters.

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Who it’s for

This is for you if…

  • 🍉 You feel stuck in old “scripts” about how sex should look, and you want to create a sex life on your own terms.
  • 🍉 You often get stuck in your head during intimacy — worrying about performance, desirability, or whether you’re doing it “right.”
  • 🍉 You want to feel more present in your body, more connected to your partner, and freer to express your desires
  • 🍉 You’re curious about building a sexual relationship that’s playful, communicative, and pressure-free.

This is not for you if…

  • ❌ You’re looking for a quick-fix, “seduction hacks,” or porn-style techniques to impress a partner.
  • ❌ You are expecting sexual therapy. If you have experienced deep trauma or sexual abuse, this may not be the place to start your journey.
  • ❌ You’re not motivated to put in the work outside of the programme. You’ll get tools, but you won’t change your sex life if you don’t experiment with your learnings in everyday life.
  • ❌ You’re unwilling to question cultural, religious, or personal beliefs that might be limiting your pleasure.

Okay, so what is actually covered? 🤓

  1. 📆 CHAPTER 1: Getting rid of the baggage you've inherited around sex

    Who do you imagine you need to be, to be desired, or “good in bed”? Let's move away from validation and approval-based scripts, to more of what YOU want to feel. Let’s empower you to make choices that feel good to you. Have sex on your terms. This chapter is about de-conditioning & shedding some of those ingrained beliefs!

  2. 📆 CHAPTER 2: Get out of your head and into your body

    Often when we release old scripts, we don't know what to replace them with. You probably don’t know what s.ex is like on your terms, because you’ve been disconnected from your body's signals. We'll learn to slowly follow the signals of what you want ✅ and don’t want 🚫. So that you can feel connected to your desires and your boundaries (and become trustworthy in bed).

  3. 📆 CHAPTER 3 - Know & love how your sexuality works

    We all have VASTLY different experiences of sex and yet we compare ourselves with the narrow depiction of sex presented in the movies! In this chapter, we'll normalise how YOU experience arousal & desire, so that you don’t feel broken if you struggle to get in the mood, or your partner rejects you —- you just see it as part of intimacy! You’ll calmly learn how to navigate most sex issues that present themselves.

  4. 📆 CHAPTER 4 - Bring creativity into your sex life

    A lot of us might feel like sex gets repetitive or one sided. If you want to get out of the script & PLAY - we need to be comfortable with rejection! I’ll give you practical ways to experiment with this, so you can rewire your relationship to rejection for good! You’ll learn creative ideas around sexual initiation, and how to make it safe to experiment & take risk ;)

  5. 📆 CHAPTER 5 - Make sex conversations feel light and joyful

    The final session will empower you to create a safe and inviting space, for you and your sexual partner to problem-solve any sex dilemma. We’ll role-play these conversations, so you can face the intimidation and feel how easeful it can be to address these themes. 🔥 Learn to navigate this vulnerable topic & initiate these important conversations with curiosity & levity.

Why take this course?

I used to run a live programme called Sex Homework Society… 👇🏼

It was my signature programme ….

We had 200+ people enrol, we ran it 11 times. We liberated many sex lives.

“Unapologetic in Bed” is a very condensed version of this. So all the reviews & testimonials are lifted from this beautiful programme…. 🖤 Because so much of the content was lifted from this.

Sex Homework Society — watch the story

A glimpse of the live Sex Homework Society programme
“You know nothing about sex before you do the Sex Homework Society” — Troy

Don’t just take my word for it ♥️

  • "Haneen has created the remedy to lousy sex education and sex culture. If you are looking for a safe space to begin a sex-positive journey, look no further. The classes are full of helpful content and enormously fun."

    — Sex Homework Society participant
  • "Thank you for your support Haneen. I can see you don't only teach this but you live it."

    — Sex Homework Society participant
  • "SHS is like a rebirth! Haneen has helped me unlock a beautiful new chapter in my life where I am more mindful of my needs, more in-tune with my body, and more confident in creating the sexual experiences that I need *with the type of partners who can nourish me.* It has also opened my eyes to how similar our anxieties and fears are around sex, which can help you approach sex and love with more play, kindness, and communication. Worth every penny, SHS will truly change your life."

    — Ali O, U.S.
  • "My work around my sexuality has been a work in progress for the last few years. I remember how out of my fucking comfort zone I felt in the first session thinking that everyone else were these sexually confident beings and I was this newbie little virgin who didn't have any place to be there. Over the course, and the sexual exploration I undertook alongside it, I realised that I absolutely had a place in the group. Haneen's vulnerability, courage, honesty and sense of fun was incredibly inspiring. And I fuckign loved share a space of open sexuality and sovereignty with everyone. It was incredible."

    — Sex Homework Society participant
  • "wasn't sure whether to do SHS as it seemed like a big investment in something that I wasn't really sure would help me. I decided to take the step of self-generosity, and I was struck by how light and joyous such a deeply transformative learning journey could be. Even though I don't have any sexual partners currently, I already feel like I'm putting into practice some of what I learnt on the course, and I feel excited to put to use the other valuable tools I picked up along the way."

    — Nikolas, UK
  • "SHS was without doubt one of the most transformative courses I have ever taken! It impacts you in ways that you never imagined and gently steers you, along with your curious cohort, on a compassionate journey through the murky waters of sex and pleasure until you emerge with the clear belief that we are the gate keepers to our own sex lives and can take ownership of our sensual selves today!! I should add that SHS isn't promising instant miracles or solutions to age old sex life issues but it does provide you with an array of useful materials to support you on the path of self discovery and Haneen's delivery of the course is simply gold - she never failed to make this a super fun (and supported) ride to be on!"

    — Thea, UK
  • "Previously I didn't have the language or confidence to talk about sex in the way I wanted to... with this course I feel so empowered to speak to what is happening for me and how to practise doing this with care with a partner."

    — Lisa, UK
  • "SHS helped me to realise how my desire is important, playful and present in everything. Instead of pressure and performance, it introduces the concepts of play and space. I was the kid doing homework instead of exploring pleasure, now I'm exploring pleasure through homework (because homework is awesome). I've learned that my sexual journey is mine to write, and it can be as fun, geeky, silly and lovely as I want it to be."

    — Amy, UK

What’s the format, exactly?

1️⃣ 5 Modules

It's 5 x 20 mins of punchy video content, with an intentional flow, accompanied by practical ‘sex’ercises that I also use in my & 1:1 coaching. Each chapter builds on the last, paving the way for a more liberated YOU.

Screenshot of the course module layout inside the learning platform

2️⃣ Workbook

There is a full workbook designed to support you as you work through each lesson. 🩷 All the exercises are in writing, which allows you to cross-reference the teaching in the workbook, and read examples of answers!

Screenshot of a workbook page with written exercises Screenshot of a second workbook page with example answers

3️⃣ Bonuses

You’ll also receive a communication framework. You are welcome to book a 1:1 coaching session with me at 30% off. 💥 Just email with the email you used to purchase the course — and I’ll give you a link!

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FAQs

🍌 How is this different to 1:1 coaching?

A lot of these exercises I use in my 1:1 coaching (as homework). It’s a really affordable way to get sex coaching without the price tag! Many of my clients add 1:1 coaching afterwards, in order to integrate the learnings deeply into their personal situation. The course lacks the accountability of course — but makes up for it in how digestible, & clear the course is broken down.

🍌 What's your style of teaching?

The way I talk about sex is full of lightness and PLAY without compromising on depth. I don’t believe we are broken or need healing. I like to think of the sexuality journey, as a powerful vehicle for self-exploration- where you learn to stay in integrity with yourself, and embrace your authentic desires & boundaries.

🍌 Is this for couples only?

Definitely not. Embodied confidence in sex comes from our relationship to self. Progress isn’t related to your relationship status, but your commitment to the course ;) You’ll have plenty of time to practice this stuff after the course too!

🍌 Do you offer refunds?

At the moment, I don’t. I’ve priced the course at the same price as a single coaching session (roughly), so that it’s accessible to as many of you as possible! However if you don’t feel this course has impacted you positively (and you’ve completed the whole thing) - reach out to me at hello@haneenkhan.com

🍌 How was this course born?

Initially the brief was: “Make a 1 hour video on s*x, as an upsell to my sex card game”. But of course - me, being, me ….. 🤨 it turned into a whole LABOUR OF LOVE. I wanted to package all the content that helped me earn my most commonly received compliment! “You're so fun, easy & safe to be in bed with!” 😇 I wish for it to give you the same.

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