Say what you actually want in sex, love, dating.
Do you know what you want? But find it hard to ask for? 🫠
I help self-aware, “therapied” high-achievers voice their desires in sex, love & dating — without fear of rejection.
Many of us approach relating with a desire to be seen as ENOUGH (interesting enough, desirable enough, safe enough etc) which keeps us in subtle performance patterns. And I believe that real intimacy only happens when you're willing to risk the truth… again and again.
IFS & NVC trained
Kink, Queer, and ENM friendly
7+ years experience, 200+ workshops, 500+ clients
Let's Play 🤸🏻♀️
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1:1 Coaching
For a deeply personalised journey, for singles or couples.
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Sex Course
Become unapologetic in bed from the comfort of your own home!
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Workshops
Attend one of the many live offerings in London or online.
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Hi deeeears, I'm Haneen. 👋🏼
My story from Lawyer 👩🏻💼 to Intimacy Coach is a real head-turner at dinners. 🤭
"Wait, WHAT? You were a lawyer?!". YUP, what can I say. I weirdly enjoyed running around in barefooted tights (👠=🙅♀️), in my chocolate stained suit…. smiling at high net-worth clients by day 👩⚖️ attending sex positive events by night. ⛓️😏 So it was no surprise when I ditched the cushy corporate world (bye-byeeeee 👋🏼) and began to run sensual supper clubs in a mansion 😂 It was the beginning of teaching myself that I could advocate for my desires. At least in my career.
But it felt harder in relationships. I thought I had to be endlessly polished, endlessly self-aware, endlessly "good" at relationships. And now? I realised the goal was never to become less human, less needy, less messy— but to become more intimate with what was already here. ♥️🥰
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"Haneen's course is like a rebirth! It unlocked a beautiful new chapter in my life where I am more mindful of my needs, more in-tune with my body, and more confident in creating the sexual experiences that I need WITH the type of partners who can nourish me. Worth every penny, her course will truly change your life."
— Ali O, U.S. -
"Previously I didn't have the language or confidence to talk about sex in the way I wanted to... With Haneen's work, I now feel so empowered to speak to what is happening for me and how to practise doing this with care with a partner"
— Lisa, UK -
"Haneen made me feel more confident in what I like, to share it with partners and actually apply it. Honestly, it made me come a few times with a man and I usually struggle with that."
— Maxi, Germany -
"Haneen helped me to realise how important my desires are. Instead of pressure, scripts and performance, Haneen helped me to embody playfulness and presence. I've learned that my sexual journey is mine to write, and it can be as fun, geeky, silly and lovely as I want it to be"
— Amy, UK -
"I wasn't sure whether to do Haneen's course as it seemed like a big investment. I was struck by how light and joyous such a deeply transformative learning journey could be. Even though I don't currently have sexual partners, I'm surprised how much I've been able to apply learnings in my other relationships!"
— Nikolas, UK -
"Haneen helped me flip a lot of shame I had around sex, inspire creativity in the bedroom, embolden how to communicate my desires, and get me comfortable in my natural pleasure. It's crazy the positive impacts I see now in my everyday communication"
— Rachel, U.S.